Friday, November 14, 2008

nothing much~

Second days at home..hmm..nothing much that I’ve done..jz sit around, helping with the cooking, watching…blogging..n hmm definitely..sleeping..hehee..

Personal view on the issues tht have been whispered around..marriage issue; very big responsibility comes along..need to be totally prepared in all aspects.. it’s jz not the way in declaring the relationship in the best approach but more to uphold the honour and conscientiousness together as one. Easy for us to judge but hard for them to make the decision and craft the dreams to be collectively reliable. Hmmm….

Frenship affair..a lot of hearsay that I heard and some bad judgement was been made to reflect the hurt feelings that each other posses. I am not good in comforting people but at least I can be a good listener, though. Thinking to all problems which have been ensued, sometimes I feel I’m too afraid in committing the not up to scratch feelings to my frens as they will misunderstand or misinterpret my words and actions.

Men.. They are less sensitive than women. They tend to look up things in rational way and by naked eyes compare to women, they tend to see problems with naked eyes plus feel with emotions. See the difference? That‘s why men posse their role as a leader whether in a family and also in the society. Not meant that women cannot be a leader.. Women also be born as a leader. Women full with emotions but tears are not always related to women.. Men also cry but in different outcome. Sometimes, tears flow down through the cheeks when the person is too angry and when the person cannot let it out properly...besides, the tears allied with the sadness that is not seize by the person’s shoulder + heart itches. Men like to seek and give solutions rather than jz to listen to what the partner tells the problems. Sometimes, women only need them to listen and they will satisfy, not search for the solution from them unless when women inquire them to do so..

2 comments:

NMAMR said...

wahh...very sastera..hehe..:P

MIFTAH said...

hehe..mane ade..opinion jer...hoho..awk la lg sastera...penih asyik..kah3..;-D